_mz_smart_, 27 июня 2016 г., 10:25
A major issue that ruins a relationship is EGO. Ego is not just a problem faced by people who are dating, it is also present in friendships and can put a wedge between family members too. Having several strings of unsuccessful relationships is by virtue of an egoistic attitude, which you need to let go. It is a step forward, towards your happiness in life. Ego vs self-esteem is virtually a key attribute which plays a major role in relationship building. Being egotistical is considered to be generally negative. While having a high level of self-esteem is considered positive. The difference of being an egotistical sense of self-worth is driven by external factors, where the major link is primarily feedback gotten from others attitude. A person with high self-esteem sense of self-worth is determined by internal factors which include passion, belief or personal vision. In relationships, there is a period where you have this awkward feeling of losing something and you try fighting it not to leg go. Situations like this result in a party hanging on to the relationship. Usually, it is common when a person is being cheated on. Our ego won't allow us to accept this fact and so we decide to manage and hang on to the relationship to prove that we are worthy to be in it. Jealousy is a dangerous element. Thoughts of it, along with our ego can be very destructive. If the pattern repeats, resentments will eventually creep into the relationship. Always proving to be right can ruin relationships amongst co-workers, boss, siblings, relatives and even spouses. Our ego dominates us and we never subdue ourselves to others' opinion rather we feel ours is the best. The fear of rejection can become a barrier in every relationship. Asides from that, it affects one from achieving your goals. Letting go of the ego and fears makes one live life without limits and achieve more. Gaining control of your ego is very important; not just in relationships alone but also in our daily lives. The best thing to do is to put your ego aside and let it go. Then you will never have to realize unsuccessful, destructive and unhappy relationships. mIzBhArGaV Subscribe!
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